I found a vent thread.
OK - there's not much to this one, but I've liked this girl for 3 years and have even asked her out while dating other girls (though the one I'm speaking of shouldn't know this). She'd been "busy" but finally said she wan't interested. Not that I asked her out often - maybe once every 3 to 6 months or so - at least because if a girl tells you she's busy - she might actually be busy versus uninterested.
But my dating anyone else aside, (and again, she should not know anything about that), I think she might only want to see:
- another Asian (she is part or all-Chinese American I think - though I'm not sure - and she might be Phillapino-American)
- another girl (she broke up with an Asian guy she'd been seeing and has not had a boyfriend for some time)
- a pot smoker (I don't smoke weed. I'm not against it. I don't have time to lose getting stoned. I'm iust very driven to keep doing stufff, but I think that's a highlight of every week for her.)
Don't think she's really my best choice, but I never got to really know her - if there's anything to know. I wonder sometimes if some people even have personalities.
However, my physical attraction to a girl is the deal-maker, and this girl is very fine.